When I work with kids today I always think about this. I work with both “normally” or “typically” developing kids and with kids with an autism spectrum disorder. I want students to recognize how to control their emotions, their behaviors and how to self-regulate. I want to create a safe space where if kids act out that is okay. You can take that energy and plug it into something that’s positive and productive. They are in a safe space and they are in the process of experimenting and learning what is right and what is wrong. An important aspect of child development is that kids need to be able to experiment through play. Kids learn through play. They need to try out things, in a safe space, and see what works and what doesn’t work. I also want kids to feel included. When I was a kid, I was excluded from a lot of social and sporting activities because I wasn’t good at socializing with other kids or playing sports. I was always the last picked at recess and sometimes I was never picked at all and had to play by myself at recess which very sad, disorienting and humiliating. When I did theater and music, kids, parents and teachers for the first time really started responding in a positive way to what I was doing. I was connecting all that energy into a positive outlet. And that was very important for my self-confidence. I don’t think I would be as mature, balanced, caring and as empathetic as I am today if it weren’t for my musical and theater outlets. It was also because my Mom and Dad supported me and brought me to these outlets. It was in these environments that adults and other kids would take the opportunity to say, “You are who you are and that is a good thing.” And dissapointment happens. Life can’t always be positive. But it’s about learning from failure, moving forward and being resilient. That’s important.